Journal Entry #21

How to find/choose a Marriage Partner

There are many steps to find/choose a marriage partner. First, make a friend. This should be fairly easy to make a friend in school or work. If you're in school or have a lot of co-workers, you're surrounded by potential friends. A way to make a friend is to not be shy; go up to that person ask questions, like "what is your name?, nice to meet you!, etc". You should act friendly and be honest. Second, keep in touch with the friend by telephone, go online. When you meet someone whom you think might make a good friend, try to exchange contact information. This is especially important if you meet someone who you aren't otherwise likely to meet again. Third, open up the opportunity for another meeting outside school or work. You can give some invitation like join a club, go to the cinema, the theater, coffee shop, etc. You should make your friend smile frequently, laugh often, and make eye contact, especially to be a good listener. Then, have a formal dating. To be trustworthy person is very important for you in this step. You should never feel pressured to do something you think is wrong and do not try to change something. After many dating, you and your friend understand and believe together more and more. Finally, find a marriage partner. You could find out your marriage partner when you and your friend always make happy to go or stay together, understand and believe mutual, etc. To be true to yourself and trustworthy, you will find out a marriage partner.